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Are there any women here who have done something like this and would be willing to comment on it? Theoretically it sounds cool, but I'd be a bit anxious about personal safety.


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I wonder what women think of this. Will they feel safe enough to try it?

I know very few women that have done that TBH.

If I was a guy yes, but unfortunately for a woman it's really not that safe, at least I've found.

This can be really scary for women who are traveling.

You could be possibly sexually assaulted, trafficked, or other things.


Certainly some women do it.

What a concept. I think my mind just blew.

I have no insight into whether women want this, but if they're amenable to the idea, imagine what the marketing engine behind something like the Susan G Komen foundation mixed with the home security industry could do with this.

Already, home security advertisements imply that you should buy their product if you don't want your wife to be raped. What if that could be extended to people's feeling of compassion for women in general? Imagine how much would be donated to buy these for Indian women after a rape scandal.

I always assume a company out to make money will eventually blur the lines of morality like that, but the complication comes from this device's implication that women are responsible for not being raped. I think people will be seriously, seriously fucked up by the fact that this thing exists. If someone is raped, how will she handle the idea that if she spent the money she could have prevented it? How will parents feel if the worst happens and they didn't buy this for their daughter? How will they feel if they did buy it but she wasn't wearing it? What about people who can't afford it? Think about what that could do to your self image! Or even worse, this only looks like it'd work on a woman who has a narrower waist than hips.

I can also see legal trouble. What about the first lawsuit against a college/concert venue/etc for bringing people together without providing these? What about someone claiming indemnity for providing them in an otherwise unsafe environment? And that's not even getting into the skydiving disclaimer the company selling 'em would have to use.

This has to be the craziest thing ever brought to market. I guess what I see happening is another pink ribbon, ostensibly nonprofit. I actually hope that happens, except this time the people behind it set an example of using 99% of funds to make the device cheap and widely distributed instead of 'losing' 80% of the money to 'administrative costs'.. though that still leaves the manufacturers and material suppliers in a morally complicated position wrt profits.


Great that you could do that! It's not very common that women want this kind of arrangement, though.

Haha!! Well, me too! But I think more women need to be inspired to do the same! Would be a fun challenge!

Maybe there's space for a site like this where only the women are allowed first contact.

Make sure to ask the women for permission when using them this way.

That's interesting. What do you think woman who do this or desire to be viewed like this?

I've done it as a man too.

These seem like reasonable precautions that don't disproportionately affect womens' access to your time and expertise. They probably help some women feel more comfortable as well.

Did it ever occur to both, you and OP, that women do that for themselves? Just wondering.

Does that sound healthy? Personally or socially? I'd worry about how that would affect my view of the real women around me and, in turn, my behaviors towards others.

I'm really curious to know if women are really going to use this. From the video, it looks really big and I'm guessing it's not light in weight either.

This may be a dumb question, but I'm assuming this is a women-only community?

Yes I speak with women knowing that there's a high chance of causing discomfort and take what efforts I can to minimise that.

If a man did this, would it generate the same publicity? I am genuinely wondering, I'm not trying to troll.
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