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How do you know what you are and are not accused of?


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If in doubt you should probably assume you're accused of wrongdoing.

Believe it or not, it's possible to be suspected or even accused of something you didn't actually do, whether through a misunderstanding or otherwise. And factors such as ethnicity and personal associations can influence the chance of this occurring.

What were you accused of?

The more you say the more that can be twisted against you. "I'm not guilty." -> "Not guilty of what? We haven't accused you of anything. Why are you acting like you've been accused? What exactly are you not guilty of?" And so on.

The response with the smallest attack surface is "No comment."


May be you should check your case before making accusations? You can you be so sure yet so wrong.

Accused is a strong word. It's more like "what we accidentally claimed to be doing".

It's a very tough situation, needing to assure people that you honestly aren't doing what you claimed and just misspoke.


One might expect you to be able to differentiate between a question and an accusation.

I think it's fair to say that an accusation in court is not an assumption, yes.

When it comes to an accusation, you can't simultaneously believe the victim and clear the defendant of guilt.

So you admit to accusing without evidence.

Accusations are easy. Proof is difficult.

So you wouldnt suggest that you should generally be able to know who your accuser is (the principle), but rather that is a standard we hold the process of whether or not some one can out you into a little box?

Thats coherent. I was originally thinking about this as a 'good for the goose, good for the gander' situation because the idea that you should generally speaking know who is accusing you and of what seems pretty reasonable.


As someone who has been falsely accused of a crime in the past, I'd just like to remind people that being charged with something does not make you guilty, it's an allegation. I know you know this,but society today seems to be treating allegations like convictions

Nope, you can still be falsely accused of almost anything.

I didn't accuse anyone. I asked. Because it sounded like it could be, but I legitimately don't know. You see the difference?

Accused?

If you're the one being accused, you have to worry about the accusation coloring other people's judgement of you. Most people really aren't logical creatures. People tend to not remember the source or veracity of things they know. So even if you're innocent, others may automatically assume you're a jerk.

You're accusing, not opining.

There are a few steps between an accusation and an action, namely the agency of the person being accused.

I certainly haven’t become every word I’ve been accused of.

I agree there is certainly harm in false accusations though. I just don’t think it’s a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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