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"It depends on the discussion"

You're gonna have to provide a context in which this wouldn't be a terrible and unacceptable thing to say, cause I can't think of one.



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Depends on what you're discussing.

>So either he has to engage in another endless discussion on the merits of the subject matter, or he has to shut the discussion down.

My question is now:

Why does it have to be an endless discussion on the merits, vs shutting the discussion down?

You can have a firm discussion on the merits without shutting it down.


I think you needed to give more context, which you might be able to do if you can still edit it. “Discussion” could mean anything.

It doesn't make much sense to try and have a general discussion about a topic that is very context dependent.

I'm not sure how this contributes to the conversation.

> Not sure what else there is to discuss.

Morals and ethics.


In both cases mentioned, the discussion has been of sufficiently limited scope. Some people will ignore any context. b^)

>… do you have anything else to add to the discussion?

Well, do I even have to at this point?


"it better be a very open discussion in such a way that they can't get the last word."

So not an open discussion at all, then.


That would be negated by the first sentence - "I stay out of discussions" - if force is being used it's no longer a discussion.

> I don’t think we could have a productive conversation here

I honestly don't know what types of discussions they are referring to. I obviously know some of what is included, but I certainly don't know what the limits are.

> things that doesn't really contribute to the discussion.

There may be a diversity in palette for this matter, even among the same people at different times.


> but these weren't exactly topics of discussion on this thread before you brought them up

Well, we're sorry we didn't recognise you as the discussion warden, but I think that's how a conversation works: people are free to bring up the points that they feel relevant, and people can either continue the train of thought or not. If it has no appeal to you, you're free to let it die a natural death rather than make pronouncements on what's relevant or not.


I don't get what you're trying to convey here. Yes, there are hypothetical situations we could talk about?

"Constant." You may have me confused with someone else.

There should be more discussion about the discussion, as discussion about the discussion shapes the future.


But you can respond by going "But it's silly to exclude X from discussion". Which is why I have been trying (and, evidently failing) to convey.

> don't discuss it at work

Even after attending a work event on that very topic, which specifically asked for feedback and further discussion?

Or should discussion be restricted to only one viewpoint?


Why? If it's ok for you to discuss, of course.
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