2. Even if it was true, welcome to not being included for once in your entire life. Now maybe you can start to begin to understand what others have experienced basically every day of their life.
1) There is almost always a pretty good reason why things are the way they are in spite of what it seems.
2) There is almost always a pretty good reason why people do what they do in spite of what it seems.
3) Everyone else is not at idiot in spite of what I think.
4) I'm no better than anyone else in spite of what I secretly believe.
Actually, the lack of appreciation of these truths is widespread across age. It's just that older people tend to be a little more patient and can more easily deal with their frustrations.
1. Yes, I admit, I don't know everything. My old self admittedly knows less than my present self (the post was written 4 years ago), who most likely, I hope, knows less than my future self. I posted the link in the hope that others may find it valuable to see how such a bug might manifest itself.
2. The post was written in an exploratory tone, not a factual, "here are the facts, here's how to solve this problem across all scenarios" tone.
A. I made that inference based on the framing of the remark, not based on straight up stupidity.
B. Plenty of people here know plenty about my circumstances. I know because they routinely use that against me.
So it is not unreasonable on my part to assume some people here do have some idea who I am and what I'm about. I was, in fact, very recently told I'm full of shit if I assume they don't: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=19776469
1) Either life in the modern world has become more and more unpredictable, and/or it was always less predictable than I used to be aware of.
2) The trouble with 'living in the now' is that eventually tomorrow will become now. Sufficient preparation for -that- now is not a strong suit for many of us. Consequently, humanity has built an existential debt which mere bankruptcy cannot erase. GOTO 1).
2. Even if it was true, welcome to not being included for once in your entire life. Now maybe you can start to begin to understand what others have experienced basically every day of their life.
[0] https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/s6bCli03aqnY_KvZoPaTgiFqCj...
[1] https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/Zq1FVWVv9GOCRJ3oHJg0PHzWgE...
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