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> lies are unsustainable

Lots of lies are perfectly sustainable, but I have a feeling they tend to be the flattering lies (to someone).

We only hire the best.



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> Lying is literally what enables us to work and live together.

That's actually a pretty tough indictment of human nature, if true.


> It's not a lie unless you word your statement very poorly.

It is entirely possible to lie without uttering a single statement that is technically untrue.


> Everyone is lying at work to some degree.

Maybe, but rarely to the degree that this guy did.


> Strategizing on how to lie is unacceptable to me.

Where are you getting this? Who lied?


> This is just one example.

Of lying.

We even have a name for that category of lie-- the white lie, or fib-- where the cost of the lie is sufficiently small and self-contained.


> lying is bad

I taught my kids otherwise.

I found that lying is no more intrinsically bad than truth telling is intrinsically good. Both truth and lies commonly enable terrible harms.

Like pretty much everything, it depends. Consideration is a much better policy than honesty.

> lying is bad, especially when done for profit.

This so often ends up in a bad place that I'll likely flag it as problematic - even before I have complete information. But that's because of reality & history, not an arbitrary rule.


> What someone tends to say makes no statement about their current argument.

Not so. If someone has lied in the past, that is evidence that their conscience permits them to lie, and so they are more likely to lie in the future.

> The take away from that story should be that every statement has to be evaluated in isolation.

Again no. The takeaway is that you should not lie, because if you do people will be less likely to believe you in the future.


> Lying is not equal to saying something that is not true. Lies are deliberate.

Yes. Being deliberate is what makes influencers liars, and not just misguided performers.


> Some people don't like lying about what they are doing, even if they can't get caught.

Unfortunately, some people do like lying, or at least they don't mind it as much, and if you create a system which rewards liars more than honest people, you shouldn't be surprised if the liars end up winning and you create more liars.


Author: > It is often stated that people who lie have a tendency to add too much superfluous detail to their accounts.

Goes on to provide too much superfluous detail to his own account. /s


> Honesty is not a skill, lying successfully is.

I can see why you would think this. Lying successfully ultimately takes more work than being honest. Being honest is like swinging a golf club or tennis racket correctly. It feels awkward and unnatural at first, but eventually gets easier. Honesty definitely is a skill, though.


> I have an issue with this - i don't lie.

Well, I don't either. That makes it much better for me that people use a test that separates liars from honest people.

Yes, the phrasing is bad, but it is a very understandable hyperbole.


> And they are always lying.

I’d like to believe I did enough due diligence to make sure that’s not the case.


> Who really wants to live in a world where it’s so much easier and effective to lie than to tell the truth?

I don't think anyone wants that, but this has been the case since the invention of the printing press and probably longer. It also gets really tricky when what is a lie vs. what is truth is not obvious.


> Every fossil fuel company is going to lie their pants off because that's what you and all other humans would do if they got into the same situation.

Speak for yourself.

1. A good number of people actually have a spine. I'd not say the majority "is good && have a spine" but enough that you are lying.

2. It doesn't help at all to spread the lie that everyone else lying.

Speaking as someone who has been embarassingly honest, and who also admires his friend who came back and admitted he'd been laughing at me behind my back.


> Chronic liars and manipulators may not be called out in public, but their negative reputation will spread quickly among people in the know.

I desperately wish this to be true, but the years spent watching them get promoted and rewarded tells me otherwise.


> making it irresponsible to tell the truth.

So, we should be thankful for being lied to? Perverse. And extremely short sighted.


> I cannot stand fucking liars.

Keep your trousers zipped and you'll be fine...

Everybody lies. The most successful liars are the ones who can hoodwink themselves - if you can convince yourself that you don't lie, you have carte blanche to foist off any other bullshit you can dream up on anyone gullible enough to swallow it. As a corollary, one should direct most of one's suspicion at the conspicuously honest...


> lie to you to make you comfortable

People do that all the time, and for a very good reason. Life in a society where everyone only speaks truth would be impossible (which is why, for instance, atheism is not very popular).

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