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Using victimized in this acception is insulting to actual victims.


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The word 'victim' is inappropriate here.

Stop using this term for people who were not victims of anyone other than themselves, it hurts actual victims.

“victim”? I don’t think that is appropriate here.

You keep using that word "victimize". I do not think it means what you think it means.

Victim is the wrong word, more like loser

The "victim mentality" comes from being a victim, to imply otherwise is outrageous.

Dude.. [1]

People have become waaaay to adept at pulling the victimhood card as soon as something either doesn't fit their narrative or disadvantages them. It needs to stop.

[1]http://i.huffpost.com/gen/1564426/original.jpg


There's a certain irony in scolding others for their perceived victimhood while simultaneously claiming to be a victim yourself.

Yup. "Victimize" means to take advantage of someone (i.e. make an actual victim of them), it doesn't mean to make them out to be a victim when they aren't.

Sure, there are different levels of trauma in different incidents.

That doesn't make the less-obviously traumatic incidents okay; they're still very bad.

> It's insulting to victims of the former to pretend otherwise.

There's nothing insulting to victims in acknowledging other victims. There is something extremely insulting to victims in refusing to acknowledge any harm to them if it doesn't meet your arbitrary standard for significance.


Victimhood.

It is not against the victim but against fake victims.

If the allegations are true (they murdered women and a child and blew off the limbs of innocent men women and children) then they are not victims, they are criminals.

Saying they are victims and suggesting that pity be given them is wrong. It insults the real victims in this tragedy.


Calling him or her a victim is riddiculus.

You sound victimised.

Being a victim is no excuse to victimize others.

The language of victimization is dangerous. There was a time when it might have seemed liberatory when applied to "marginalized" populations but the categorical imperative always gets you in the end...

That is a very victim mentality statement to make.

> Not trying to victim blame

This is the definition of victim blaming. You're implying that they somehow deserve the outcome.

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