Edit: Here's sort of an answer to my own question https://www.howtogeek.com/221889/connect-your-home-router-to...
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https://github.com/jlund/streisand
If you run through a 3rd party VPN you have to trust the provider to not sell your information.
If you run through a US based datacenter your data is still within reach of a subpoena but your ISP won't have access to it.
Edit: Here's sort of an answer to my own question https://www.howtogeek.com/221889/connect-your-home-router-to...
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