My advice, stay in the Bay Area until you get your head screwed on straight.

If you think you are a "magnet for women" that very attitude repels any woman with enough self-respect to see through the bravado.

Concentrate on liking yourself enough that being single doesn't bother you and next thing you know....bam....there she'll be.

Or not, in which case like the person you see in the mirror each morning. Get there and the rest is easy.

Sincerely,

Single by choice (Female) Software Development Manager in the Southeast US.