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> It makes most people uncomfortable [...] mentally.

Citation needed.



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> Makes people feel uncomfortable - that is a lot more common these days.

People feeling uncomfortable on what were previously normal requests is also quite a bit more common.


It is supremely uncomfortable inside some people's heads.

Indeed. Most people I've talked to who have such views think quite a lot about that because it makes them uncomfortable. Myself included.

Because it makes someone else uncomfortable?

Kind of an abstract complaint. Maybe some people are uncomfortable, but why? Needs better "object-level" examples.

Literally anything can make "a number" of people claim to be uncomfortable, especially when it involves an examination of discrimination that favors them. I missed nothing, and I award you an F for your non-rebuttal "rebuttal" of what Damore wrote.

Your counter argument is that this implies uncomfortable things about our social structure?

“Disgusted and uncomfortable” with a specific person's behavior or by the idea itself?

I think the term uncomfortable people is a flippant and trivial term when it comes to the details listed in that link.

Fair, I haven't read the original discussion and was more making a general point about the fact that feeling uncomfortable is the main concern here, not the specifics of the discussion, and it sounds like that's Stack Exchange's opinion as well.

> the message can be disturbing to some

How would it be disturbing?


> If people like it, why shouldn't they have it?

It may become the norm that even though it's still optional, society moves in a direction where people have it on by default, and you are met with confused/dissapointed faces when you explain it is uncomfortable. Or it simply becomes a cultural norm in the professional world


I think mostly it just makes other people uncomfortable.

I am sure the author wanted to make a specific demographic uncomfortable. If someone feels uncomfortable, maybe they could use different tools.

>the comment is still objectionable

No it isn't, there are plenty of people including me who believe that those things are mostly mental illnesses and\or trivial categories invented for novelty's sake. "Objectionable" implies that it's a mainstream opinion that those things are normal and healthy and the fringe opinion is that they're not, if anything, it's the reverse.


I would argue you see that uncomfortably often

Yes I think it would make most people uncomfortable

That's not how I read it at all. The "uncomfortable" is only if you remain completely silent.

I believe OP was more making the statement that he appreciates when people state that they're uncomfortable with it. As any grown adult should be able to do.
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