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She moved to Germany to provide housing, health care, and education for their younger children. Divorce came later.


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"She went to Germany since she had German citizenship (he didn't)."

They were married and had been for a long time (i.e. demonstrably not a "sham marriage"). The husband would have got a permanent residency and work visa in Germany.


She didn’t move to Germany, but her kids have EU passports now and for as long as that’s a thing. Mine don’t and I do sometimes feel sad about that.

She was born in the West, yet she had no free will to flip her husband off and go live elsewhere in her town/Germany? What an odd story.

She never claimed to have moved to Germany. Or to plan it. She wants the option open, especially for her children.

Even worse- "Still a citizen of Germany, she has the option of repatriating to her homeland, which has a free program for nationals wishing to relocate. She’d be able to get off the plane, connect with social services, and get subsidized housing and medical coverage."

She has a golden ticket to a vast array of social services, but she's tied to a community in one of the most expensive cities in the USA.


"Still a citizen of Germany, she has the option of repatriating to her homeland, which has a free program for nationals wishing to relocate. She’d be able to get off the plane, connect with social services, and get subsidized housing and medical coverage. But for 50 years, she has built a life for herself in San Francisco, and that’s something she doesn’t want to give up."

That's already explicitly stated in the article:

> "Lovecruft had intended to move to Germany someday, but she put those plans on overdrive."


If you read the end of the article, it turns out she is actually a German citizen, which has "a free program for nationals wishing to relocate. She’d be able to get off the plane, connect with social services, and get subsidized housing and medical coverage." In fact Germany has a very strong social welfare net, she just chooses not to take advantage of that.

Hmmm… maybe there are some details she is leaving out, but it seems like she decided to be a military spouse abroad on hard mode:

- There are typically base services that support spouses in ways that she griped about — taxes, language instruction, health insurance, cheap gas, big box stores (PX, AAFES), etc.

- She and her husband get a substantial stipend for housing near the base — that is, they don’t pay rent for what will likely be a very nice place by local standards. Plus they can buy stuff at US prices at the base stores. Complaining about prices seems odd.

- She seems to have a shitty attitude. It’s not a surprise that folks aren’t responding well to her.

- Side note: I wonder if she’s actually having marriage problems, and she’s projecting it onto Germany. Her husband does not seem to be helping her much with being a military spouse (e.g., by telling her about base services), and that’s a culture shock of its own.


I’m not sure if she is a German citizen? That seems a bit quick. I’d assume it has something to do with her medical condition and him (the citizen) being her caretaker instead.

"A month after resign­ing, she left her husband and two children in the US and took a job as dean of a school of public health in Shanghai."

Where does her family now live? This seems to say she got a divorce and moved to China?


> Still a citizen of Germany, she has the option of repatriating to her homeland, which has a free program for nationals wishing to relocate. She’d be able to get off the plane, connect with social services, and get subsidized housing and medical coverage.

What the hell? She has to threaten and insult people around her and was living in an illegal building, yet has the perfect option open to her.

EDIT: And before anybody says anything about her giving up her life - by the sound of the article, her life consisted of insulting and fighting with all her neighbors. Logically if she had friends, she wouldn't be living in her car - her friends would have helped her out.


Yeah, but the law also allowed her husband and children to stay by her side.

Thanks. She's a strong woman as well and, as devastating as these events are she's moving forward with her life, up to the point that she is planning to move to Germany in a few months.

Have a nice day.


She wasn't a German expatriate, as far as I can tell!

There are pros and cons.

Whatever her reasoning, she chose the same destination as people like Jacob Applebaum who "[...] has moved to Berlin, where he has applied for residence authorization; his stated reasons include that he doesn't want to go back to the USA because he doesn't feel safe and that privacy protections are better in Germany than in the US. In December 2013, Appelbaum said he suspected the U.S. government of breaking into his Berlin apartment." [0]

[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jacob_Appelbaum


From the top of her original article:

> I had already been in the process of moving, permanently, to Germany, and had retained a German immigrations lawyer several months prior to these events. [1]

It's not like she just impulsively thought about Germany and left that week. Yes, it was a catalyst, but it seems to me that she was already on the fence, ready to leave. She even said she was waiting for her visa approval to be accepted after the FBI had made a request to interview her.

[1] https://blog.patternsinthevoid.net/fbi-harassment.html


She has an EU passport for her and her kid (husband is american though).

I'm pretty sure this just means she moved to China but her family didn't. It's a bit of an awkward phrasing as it includes "she left her husband" but adding "in the US" means she just left him behind rather than divorcing him.
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